Sonja Benson

10 Tips to Fair Fighting

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Perhaps you are thinking that a marriage counselor and relationship coach shouldn't be teaching you to fight with your partner.  Now, while I'd love it if couples didn't fight, we all know that conflict is a part of life and it WILL happen.  When conflict arises, it's important that you at least are ...read more

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“We’re Just SO Different!”

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Why is it that the person you fall in love with is often completely different from you? You like to amble through life smelling the roses, and your partner moves at the speed of light. You’re gregarious and easy going, and your spouse is quiet and ultra productive. Yet, you are both attracted to ...read more

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How To Fight Fair: An Easy-To-Follow Guide For Couples

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Ok, this post is not really about fighting, it’s more about conflict resolution, but let me just start with what NOT to do! Both men and women make some mistakes with conflict. Ladies, pay attention, now... First, know this: If there’s one thing that strikes fear into the hearts of men everywhere, ...read more

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